Thanksgiving is more than a meal; it’s a whirlwind of family, tradition, and memories. From hosting seventeen guests to reviving a cherished cranberry sauce recipe, the day balanced chaos with joy. Reflecting on smoked turkey, timing perfection, and childhood lessons, it’s a celebration of gratitude and togetherness that lingers.
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On Good Deaths And True Names
Content warning: This post talks about death and dying, and mentions both assisted and unassisted suicide. Frustration: Opening this file on my main computer to write something one night, then deciding it would be better to do it on the writing machine, then getting distracted before I got to the writing machine and forgetting what Read More
Bluesky and Beyond: New Tools and Writing Prompts for Creators
I’ve added Bluesky to my ever-growing stable of social media platforms. My handle there is @bobmueller, which should be no great surprise if you follow me anywhere else. It feels very Twitter-like, by design, I’m sure. No ads (although I’m running AdBlockPlus, so I wouldn’t see them anyway), but no sponsored posts, either. I’ve rediscovered Read More
After the Election: New Challenges, Familiar Concerns
Reflecting on post-election uncertainties and the future, this blog post explores the emotional responses of friends, veterans, and voters. Bob shares personal insights on political shifts, Oklahoma’s local issues, and upcoming changes, and staying grounded amid the nation’s evolving landscape.


